Social distancing, self isolation, lockdown - they are all about disconnection. It is for the greater good of not spreading the Coronavirus germs, exceptional times call for exceptional measures.

Whilst we have to obey these measures, we don’t have to let them define us.

Many of us are extremely privileged, we aren’t key workers and have a relatively happy home life and good mental health. All we need to do is stay home, and it will be uncomfortable - but not really that painful.

Here are some ways to stay connected with your loved ones, through this time.

Messaging Apps. I am using a mix of Whats App and FB Messenger to send messages to friends and family. Obviously you can use texts, but the apps are very cheap or free and provide an easy opportunity to send photos and videos as well.
Video calls. Again these are a great way of having face to face contact. You can use apps like Whats App, which also allows a small group conversation and messenger (not sure if the group call works easily there). And of course the Zoom app which is used by families, friends and businesses all over the world.
Facebook Groups. I started one and there are many more which have popped up to help provide links to resources and mutual support with other parents. Come check out my group at Education at Home
Local Support. It is all very well keeping in touch with your family, but at some point you might need practical help. Say what you will about Facebook, but their groups function has helped many communities find those who need help. To find these groups, just search the name of your area and see what pops up. For the specific support groups, search for Covid Mutual Aid and the name of your area.
Rainbows at Your Window. At the moment, we are still allowed exercise and we are making the most of it. It is really heart warming on our walks to see pictures of a Rainbow or other encouraging messages. Feel free to join in.
Virtual Playdates. The girls have been missing their friends and it is even harder for them as they are at a formative age where these skills are developing. We enjoyed a virtual playdate with our friends recently which helped all of us. I set the tablet up to video us as we and our friends played with play dough, and then we (adults) took turns reading books (we chose books we both had so we could easily see pictures).
Virtual Reading, my Mum has been reading to the girls! It works, either by prerecording or live, but having a grandparent read is a great way of encouraging children to interact with their grandparents and help them build mutual fond memories.
Drone. Or for something more creative, a drone! I was just reading today about a chap under quarantine in NYC on his building’s roof who liked the look of a girl on her roof, so sent his number via drone. They manage to have a date by setting tables on their respective roofs and face timing each other.

How to Connect With Others During the Coronavirus Pandemic